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  • 5th July 2008

    How to Spend Quality Time With Your Kids

    Are you a mother who is also a career-oriented woman? If you are, you may have number of different issues tugging at your heart. In today’s society, many mothers are fearful of putting their family first, especially in certain circumstances, in fear of losing their jobs. With that in mind, there are many mothers who are fearful that their children will grow up resenting them due to the amount of time they spent focused on work.

    While being a mother and a career-oriented woman, all at the same time, may seem like an impossible task, it is a task that you can more than perform. What you need to remember, although difficult as it may be, is that you should be a mom first. However, that doesn’t mean that you should just toss your workload to the side and not care. There are a number of different ways that you can go about being a good parent, while still brining home an income. One of those ways involves spending quality time with your child or children when you are not working.

    One of the best ways for you to go about spending quality time with your child or children is by creating a schedule for yourself. This schedule can be used to outline any important events that you and your child or children have planned. Although your schedule does not need to be followed right down to the letter, it is important to have one. Mothers who create schedules for themselves are more likely to follow through with their plans.

    Speaking of your plans, you may be wondering what you should do to spend quality time with your child or children. Of course, it is important to keep your child’s age in mind. A child who is three years old will prefer different activities than one who is nine or ten years old. With that in mind, there are a number of different activities that many children, including those of all ages, love. A few of those activities are outlined below for your convenience.

    One activity that you may want to think about doing with your child or children is taking them to the zoo. Regardless of where you live, you should have a zoo within a reasonable driving distance to your home. Zoo trips are fun and exciting, as they often last all day. What is nice about zoo trips is that they are fun and educational all at the same time. This means that your quality time can benefit your child or children in more ways than one.

    Another activity that you may want to think about doing is taking your child or children to the movies. Whether your child is three years old or fifteen years old, there should be a movie playing that would likely interest them. Going to the movies is nice, as many children view it as a treat. For more affordable movie tickets, you may want to think about going to see a movie with your family during the daytime.

    Additional activities that many children enjoy are those of park visits, museum visits, and sporting events. In all honestly, it really doesn’t matter what you do. To your child or children, how matter what their age, they will likely just appreciate the fact that you took some time away from work to have fun with them, no matter what the activity.




    5th July 2008

    Baby Gift Basket Ideas, Perfect Gifts for a New Baby

    Are you looking for the perfect gift for the new baby of a friend or family member? Gift baskets for babies are adorable and thoughtful gifts, allowing you to give a more personal gift to the mom for her new baby.

    There are many ideas for themed gift baskets for the baby. Ideas can range from the simple and frugal gift basket to a sophisticated and expensive gift basket. How little or how much you choose to include is one of the joys of making and giving gift baskets as a gift. There are also many commercially prepared gift baskets, already stuffed with delightful goodies for the new baby.

    To make your own gift basket for a baby, you first want to decide on a basket or container to hold the gifts. The container can be something other than an actual basket. Containers could be a small wicker cradle, a metal tub, a baby bathtub, and even a diaper pail bucket.

    Now comes the fun part. There are so many things a new mom needs for a baby, so there is a wide range of items you can put into the gift basket. If the baby hasn’t been born yet, you might want to choose neutral colors such as greens and yellows.

    Cloth diapers have finally come back around as the choice of diapering for the baby. Many moms prefer cloth diapers to the disposable ones. The regular unfolded cloth diapers can also serve as burping cloths. Prefolded shaped cloth diapers with velcro closings are very popular, and are available in various prints and designs. Fuzzi Bunz, Kissaluvs, Wickeez and Bumkins are just four companies that put out these types of prefolded cloth diapers.

    Items for the nursery make thoughtful items for the gift basket. Some ideas are changing pads for the nursery changing table, crib blankets and baby quilts, a diaper stacker that hangs on the crib, and baby mobiles.

    Other items to consider are baby spoons, bottles and bottle liners, bibs and teething rings, baby wash and baby bath, baby oil and lotion, diaper rash ointments, petroleum jelly, rattlers, pacifiers, receiving blankets, baby wash clothes, hooded towels for baby, brush set, a baby memory book, one piece outfits, socks, sleepers, piggy banks, soft toys, board books, diaper bags, baby wipes, a baby bath tub, bath toys, etc.

    Once you have all of the items that you want to include in the gift basket for the baby, place them in the container. If the container is a basket or like a basket, you will want to put some type of shredding in the bottom of it. You can leave the shredding out and use cloth diapers placed in the bottom instead, or a receiving blanket. Sticky glue dots applied to the items help to hold the gifts in place to make the gift basket look nice and maintain that look. Glue dots can be found in the craft section of Wal-Mart.

    You will want to wrap the basket in some transparent plastic wrap. Gift basket wrap can be found in the craft section of Wal-Mart. Or you can use transparent gift wrap paper found in the greeting card section of Wal-Mart. Wrap the basket in the plastic, bringing the open ends to the top of the basket. Hold the wrapping closed by tying it with ribbon or a metallic twist tie. You can also add a large bow to the container to add a creative touch to it.

    There are many ideas for gift baskets for a baby. Adding your own touch to a gift basket and giving it as a gift is what makes gift baskets so unique and thoughtful.


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    5th July 2008

    The Process of Negotiating the Rules with Your Child

    We all know that as parents discussing and negotiating the rules with our children is never easy. Children are all very different, and what might need to be a rule for one, may not even be an issue for another. That being said, there are many parameters that we set as parents that are the hard and fast rules, those with no ‘wiggle room.’ Those are the rules set forth to protect our child’s health, safety and well being. These rules and their consequences should be very clearly defined and it should be understood by all involved that they are there for a very important reason and that they are ‘all or nothing.’

    Rules that keep our children safe are of the utmost importance. These could include everything from teaching youngsters not to touch the hot stove to teaching your school aged child the importance of obeying the laws while riding their bicycle. Children need to understand these rules are to be followed to the letter and there is no room for negotiation here.

    For adolescents and teenagers, such rules should include expectations about drinking, the use of illegal drugs, or safe defensive driving. These rules are also imperative to a child’s health, well being and safety. There should be no room for experimentation or relaxing the rules in specific social situations.

    There are rules that can be fairly and equitably negotiated with your children as well. Rules regarding how many hours per week can be spent on video game playing, what time a child is expected home for dinner, what time each night homework is to be completed, or how late a teenager is allowed to stay out on weekend nights are all rules that can be discussed openly and honestly between you and your child.

    These should also be consistent, however. Don’t allow 11 p.m. one weekend night and then tell your teenager 9:30 the following weekend night when going out with the same group of friends. If your teenager broke the 11 p.m. curfew the weekend before, the consequence of losing the privilege of going out that weekend should be strictly enforced. Don’t bend the rule just because your teenager seems genuinely sorry and promises never to do it again. Consequences should be consistent, fair, and always followed through.





    5th July 2008

    Baby Safety Tips: How To Keep Your Baby Safe In All Situations

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    5th July 2008

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    2nd July 2008

    The Importance of Good Prenatal Care for Pregnant Women

    Pregnant women absolutely need good prenatal care. Good prenatal care is essential to ensure not only the health of the mom, but the health and well being of the baby as well.  Women who refuse prenatal care are much more likely to have low birth weight babies, premature babies, and babies that don’t survive.

    All women who are expecting a baby want to have a safe and problem free pregnancy.  And a lot of women will go through a pregnancy just fine and have little if any complications. But the fact is that complications do arise and when they do, without routine prenatal care, the outcome might not be so good.

    When a woman suspects that she is pregnant, she should have a pregnancy test done to determine if she is indeed pregnant.  As soon as it is determined that a baby is on the way, prenatal care should begin.  There simply is no substitute for good prenatal care!

    It’s important to know that no matter how many children a woman has already had, there is no way to ensure or know that the next pregnancy and birth will be the same or go okay.  One pregnancy could be perfectly risk free and without any problems while the next pregnancy might find the mom with gestational diabetes, preeclampsia, high blood pressure, abnormal bleeding, or a host of other complications in pregnancy.

    Ultrasounds and fetal monitoring also help to ensure that the baby is doing just fine.  Any fetal abnormalities or placenta problems need to be caught right away.   Without regular prenatal care, some problems will go unchecked, endangering both the mom and the baby.

    Prenatal care can come from not only an obstetrician, but from a general practitioner or a midwife.  If using a midwife, there should always be an obstetrician as a backup in case of emergencies or complications.  Medical issues can arise in a pregnancy or birth at any time and the health and safety of the baby and mom is what’s most important.

    Prenatal visits for a low risk mom typically start out at one a month for the first 28 weeks, then twice a month until week 36, and once a week until the birth.  Prenatal visits for a high risk pregnancy can be once a week for the first 28 weeks, and even as much as twice a week until the birth of the baby.

    To ensure that a healthy baby, it’s vital that a pregnant woman get good routine prenatal care. Keep appointments and don’t miss them.  Discuss with your doctor any concerns that you have.  Giving your baby a healthy start in life is one of the best gifts you can give as a mom.










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