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  • 28th October 2008

    Child Care For WAHM’s

    Many potential Wahms think that starting an at home daycare business will be an easy way to make extra money and stay at home with their children. Owning a childcare business can be rewarding and does have many perks. However, the realities of this type of business are far from the ideal expectations of most people considering childcare.

    If you have experience in child care or a degree related to the child care field, then opening your own daycare as a Wahm is a natural extension of your our of the home job. However, there are a few important distinctions between working for someone else taking care of children and running your own in-home facility.

    The first is money. At home childcare businesses can be profitable, but it normally takes six to eighteen months for Wahms to see any substantial income coming in. This may not be a problem for you, and if you are committed to building the quality and size of your business, the start of your profitability can be on the low end of that scale.

    It takes several months to a year to turn a daycare into a profitable daycare for many reasons. First of all, each state has its own licensed childcare requirements. Getting licensed to have a home daycare means attending classes, passing certification and having your home inspected. While you are going through this process, you can look into doing some unlicensed childcare for a few children to start building your business. Each state has its own rules for unlicensed childcare. You should take the steps, however, to get licensed because it will increase your clout in the eyes of parents and make it easier to get funding for your daycare.

    It can also take a while to become a profitable daycare because of the start up costs involved. While you do have some baby and child items from your own children, there are many things that you’ll need to buy in order to make your home functional as a daycare. You’ll want to buy tables and chairs, art supplies, music CDs, games and other activities that the children can use while they are in your home.

    Finally, it takes time to build up a list of children who attend your daycare. There are many home daycare centers to choose from in every town, and once parents find a good center they normally stay there long term. Finding new clients can be difficult, especially if you don’t take care of infants or babies. Getting clients can be easier when you are licensed, but to begin with you need to rely on networking with parenting groups, people at your church, people in your community and friends in order to build your business.

    Despite the long start up time, many Wahms find that owning their own in home childcare center is a great solution to their work at home problem. There are many benefits to taking care of other people’s children. Your children will never be without playmates to entertain them. You’ll have access to many fun and exciting programs made especially for daycare business owners, including discounts on supplies. You may even be eligible for federal subsidies for food and diapers for your cares.

    To find out if owning a home daycare is right for you, read up on the subject. Visit other home daycares and ask how those Wahms are enjoying their business. Find out what your state and local regulations are regarding licensed and unlicensed daycare. Once you’ve done your homework, you’ll know if owning a childcare is right for you.




    28th June 2008

    Is Your Child Being Hurt? What to do if You Suspect Your Daycare Provider or Babysitter is Abusing Your Child

    Many American women leave their kids with a babysitter or put them in daycare while they work outside the home. But just how safe are your children in the care of a person who might be watching a number of kids? There are some signs to look for that might mean your child is being abused, hurt, or neglected while with the daycare provider or babysitter.

    Most people would agree that taking care of kids can be very stressful. A person who doesn’t isn’t able to control themselves when stressed out might not be able to handle a crying baby or a child that cries or whines a lot or simply isn’t cooperating with the babysitter. Sometimes they go off the deep end and they abuse an innocent baby or child. And often the parents have no clue that the babysitter or daycare provider is hurting their kids.

    There are several signs that might indicate that your child is being abused by your daycare provider. While these don’t necessarily mean there is abuse, they are reasons to be concerned. These tips are also for parents who have been using a the same babysitter or provider for at least a couple of weeks, time enough for the child to know the babysitter and not be going through leaving you withdrawals.

    If your child has been comfortable with the babysitter but that changes suddenly and the child is very reluctant to be left with the babysitter, there could be a reason why the child is behaving in that manner. Has the child not had a problem in being left but recently began to cry and be very upset that you are leaving them with that particular person? Is the child doing this when left with someone else or only the babysitter or daycare provider in question? Assuming the child is very upset at being left with the babysitter, it would raise the question of why the child is so upset and crying. There is a reason that the child pitches a fit when you drop them off with the babysitter, when this behavior is new and not common for the child.

    Is your child leaving the babysitter with bruises when they haven’t had them before? While it’s normal for kids to get cuts and bruises when playing, when this occurs too much, it raises a red flag. Ask the child and the babysitter separately how the bruises occurred. If you get two different stories or this happens repeatedly, it’s possible the bruises aren’t from playing.

    Another sign of abuse is a child that flinches when you raise you arms near the child, such as reaching for something that might be near the child. A child that has been hit will often flinch out of fear that they are about to be hit again. If your child has never done this before and is suddenly doing it, it could be time dig deeper into what’s going on when the child is with the babysitter. A child that flinches in this manner has most likely been slapped or hit near the head or face.

    Abused children will often become withdrawn. If your child has been a loving and happy child and has recently become withdrawn, it could be from abuse. This could be not just physical abuse but also mental or verbal abuse. A stressed babysitter might scream or yell things at the child or berate them with names, etc. Talk to your child and find out how the babysitter speaks to them.

    If you suspect that your babysitter is hurting your child, proving it might be a bit difficult unless there are bruises to prove or the child outright tells you that the babysitter is abusing them. While you don’t want to falsely accuse anyone, you want your child to be safe and unharmed.

    There are several things parents can do if they suspect abuse. The first thing is immediately remove your child from the suspected babysitter. Take pictures of any bruises or suspicious marks on the child. Contact the police or child welfare department and file charges. Depending on the severity of the abuse, the child might need counseling. The important thing is that the babysitter is not allowed to care for any other kids and hurt them too.

    Unless you already know the person who will be caring for your kids, it’s important to always get background information on anyone that is going to be watching your child. Whether it’s someone that babysits in your home or their home or a daycare business, do some research before just leaving your kids with anyone.

    One way to find out how a daycare is treating the children they are caring for is to drop in unannounced and see how the provider is dealing with the stress of watching several young children. Leave work early and pick the kids up earlier than usual and observe how the babysitter reacts. If she seems angry that parents arrive early, it might cause you to ask why. If the daycare provider seems upset that you are there unexpectedly, you might want to consider another babysitter.

    No one that watches your kids should be upset that you want to know how they are handling things. It’s very important that babysitters understand that they are caring for your kids and that the welfare of your kids always comes first. Any babysitter that is upset that you arrive early to get the child or that you arrive with announcing it first is a cause for a red flag. Remember that you are the parent! The safety of your child should never cause a babysitter to be upset over you checking them out unexpectedly.

    If you suspect your child is being abused by the babysitter, take action quickly and get your kids away from the babysitter and alert the police and child welfare agency as to what is going on with that particular daycare provider.




    28th June 2008

    Saving Money on the Cost of Child Daycare

    Having a baby is a wonderful experience, and life with the new baby is just beginning. But the fact is that six weeks after the birth of your child, you have to return to work. Your finances have changed with the new addition to your family. You need someone to care for your new baby while you work, but you can’t afford to have daycare costs eat up your paycheck. What can you do?

    In general, if you continue to work, you can look to be needing daycare or someone to babysit your child for at approximately a four year time frame, or until the child reaches school age. The cost of daycare for a new baby will be more usually because they require more care.

    There are a number of ways to potentially save money on the cost of child daycare. One idea is to enlist the help of family or close friends. Normally they will not charge what a daycare provider would charge, and you already know these people, allowing you immediate peace of mind as to who is caring for your baby.

    You might also consider the option of working at a different time than your spouse so that one of you is with the child more, leaving less time needed for daycare of a babysitter. Rearranging your work schedule isn’t always an option, but if your employer is willing, it will help cut costs on daycare.

    For low income families, there might be child care help through through the county. Financial aid might be available to help defray daycare costs.

    Local families might consider starting their own babysitting club. Moms can take turns caring for babies and children depending on their work schedules, all free of charge or at a low cost. With each parent involved in caring for all the children of the members in the babysitting group, it can help to save a lot of money on daycare.
    The cost of placing your child in a licensed daycare will depend on many factors. The age of your child, the child’s needs, the location of the daycare, the going rate for daycare centers in that area, and how often you use the daycare are just some of the factors that determine what you will pay for a daycare provider for your child.

    One of the easiest ways to save money on caring for your child, when you have to work, is to work at home. A home business of your own, or telecommuting, allows you to be at home with your child on a full time basis, thereby totally undoing the need for child daycare or a babysitter. It takes some adjusting and time management and your child benefits from the parent or parents being home.

    Child daycare can cost you a fortune, but it doesn’t have to. Making changes in your present work schedule, enlisting the help of family and friends, starting your own work at home business, and seeking financial aid are just a few options open to parents who want to save money on child daycare costs.










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